And the reason is you!

During the low point of your life you will get to meet 4 kind of people 

Kind 1: they are the reason, you are in that situation! Knowingly,  unknowingly they put you in that situation and when you try to talk about the problem they don’t take responsibility for their action either because they don’t understand what you are talking about, how they are responsible for or because they don’t really care! Or even if they care they have no idea how they can be of help! Or how to make it right! 

Kind 2: the manipulators! they will look for opportunities when they can take maximum benefit of your situation! While they act like they are there to help you all they will do is take benefits of you and use you until you are of benefit to them! They will come back and give you reasons why so and so happened and re use again whenever possible! 

Kind 3: the strangers! Live or die they have nothing to do with you! 

Kind 4: the motivators! The eye opener! They might be someone you know or someone you don’t! They don’t seek for benefit and they make you realize that you are responsible for all that you are feeling! You are responsible for your actions and how you feel! They make you realize: those kind1,people whom you blame for your situation had no idea that you were feeling this way! You can do nothing about it but just move on and understand them! Those kind2, people who took benefit of you were just grabbing their opportunities! Because that is what you are taught grab the opportunity! Now it’s up to them to what level! It’s your fault that you were unaware of you being used or you allowed them to use you! And kind3 live or die they got nothing so you should have nothing to complain either! If you want to care for them it’s your choice but you can’t force them to look at you! You can’t say “yo look at me I’m at the lowest phase look after me” would you ?? 

Hence! Thank you all the Kind4, eye opener who try to make you realize or tell you somehow that only you are responsible for your situation! For how you feel! For what you are going through! Blaming anyone is a waste of your energy! Only you know your situation! Only you are responsible for your situation and only you can take yourself out of that situation! So help yourself! 

Upee speaks after a long time! Cause after a long time this is “what’s in my mind” My intention is not to poke anyone but just try to be the Kind 4 person for myself and those looking for kind4 in their life! After all who doesn’t like to be motivated ? Who doesn’t like to hear “it’s because of you that I did not give up” Sorry! if I happen to speak more than required!